It's challenging to predict what our interactions might be like diving in as strangers. It's important for me going into RT/ live time play that we are on the same page in relation to use of language before diving into controlled chaos. Sometimes that can be achieved via email and then over time, but I know some folks like to be able to chat a little more. This is also a way for folks to pick my brain or ask questions about kinky journeys.

I find some of the best consultations to be a walk and talk stroll near water or trails for added privacy with background noise or a text-based chat. Consultations are not a replacement for screening.

•  In-Person Consult 250.hr

•  Video Consult 200.hr

•  Text-Based Consult 100.hr

Read more about how I approach Consent and Understanding Here

Outdoor anything requires the consent of all bystanders, and subtle power play may not involve many physical pleasures. More advanced outdoor things and outdoor sessions require more experience playing together to orchestrate.. This is a nice way to get some socially-distanced power play as pandemic things continue for those not ready to play indoors yet. 300.hr

• Parcel PickUps

• Play Parties

• Shopping Trips + Dinners

• Museums- Breweries - Fests

• Costume/ Outfit Shopping

• Outdoor Consultations or Adventure

Unique Outdoor Things for Newbs:

• Outdoor Aftercare/ Extended Adventure Breaks, Hiking

• Hosen Hiker

• Coffee Shop Golden (CSG)

• Garbage Sluts

Private sessions are my favourite way to connect and play and have been for years. Please take advantage of the writing I have around negotiations and safety to familiarize yourself with what I may ask you!

Required: Screening, Negotiating and Deposit (Gov't ID with matching Deposit name). References area great asset, and are required for all requests of heavy edge play from people who are new-to-me. Expect a few days negotiating and screening. Advanced booking only, no same-day sessions. * I have a 90 min minimum booking for new-to-me folks, otherwise I offer hourly to multi-day adventures:

• 90min Intro Session 600

• 400/ hr

• 2hr 800

• 3hr 1200

• 4hr 1600

• Domination Duos 800.hr

• Fauxvernight /Full Day 3000

• Overnight 3500+

• + 50% Same-Day Booking

Read a bit More about Booking —-> Here

April Availability Here

May Availability Here

Session Application Form Here

Fauxvernight Details Here

Last Month for my Rope Special Here

Here are my favourite duo partners right now, feel free to ask about others depending on the skills you are hoping to experience! I highly recommend MVM for setting up gang bangs with me in them as well!

Mistress Violet Mays:

Gorgeous, skilled medical play, "virgin births", fisting, catheters, suturing, slut training, sissification, strap on, electro, milker kit, beatdowns, corporal, breathplay, latex, leather, decadence

Her website

Lady Delphine:

Sadistic rites + witchiness, creative humiliation, corporal, decadent foot worship, queer stuff, stapling, trampling, corporal, electro, bondage, fisting, foot smothering, sploshing, play piercing, PVC, latex

Her Website

Bastienne Cross:

Golden blasting, wam, filth play, foot worship, trampling, farts, smothering, silliness an genital puppets, mommy-aunt-dad role play, spanking, role play, slime, nerdy themes, gay slut training

Her Website

Miss Ava Rose

So excited to announce that Miss Ava Rose has returned from hiatus to grace us with her gorgeous visage and salacious sadism!

Her Website

I greatly value time spent away from screens/ electronics and really love in-person play, but I do have a few options for playing from far away!

The shape of distance training depends on how much time or interaction you'd like and how: many folks love an hour session online at the end or start of the week to set perverted intentions, and will use Sextpanther to text me updates on their filthiness for me to answer at my earliest convenience.

Texting/ Chats

Casual Texting via SextPanther

Video

Here

Videos for Sale

Snail Mail/ Paper

Care Packages

Winter Panty Fetish Mailers

Mementos

Handwritten Erotica

Audio

My Podcast

Custom Audio: 50/ 10 mins

Social Media

My Twitter

Extended Adventures are longer pockets of escape/ adventure/ immersive shenanigans. These are generally combinations of studio play time and adventures, mixing up the speeds and intensities of activities over a day to work with natural chemicals brought up in play, to ride them or to come down in order to eat a meal, that sort of thing. As far as the adventure bit: cycling, walking around, meals, museums, laying under trees, sidequests and sensory experiences that don't qualify as BDSM.

I've offered many specialty experiences over the years that were essentially these with obscure themes throughout for 4-8 hours and they've all been a blast.They are very much bespoke relating to folks ability levels, interests, energies, come down + aftercare needs etc.

Planned Aftercare is extra time spent coming down from BDSM play. It's often something I'll make time for with a sub who is attempting something really intense or playing for a long period of time where they need to be able to drive and interact with others or catch a flight shortly afterward for example. Some things take some time for recovery with re-hydration + snacking or getting rid of the zoomies or snoozies” before re-entering the general public. This can be as simple as planning the last 10 mins of playtime for a nap on the floor, setting aside a half hour to lean into tears: we can't say if we'll need these things but leaving space for it in the planning with very heavy play is very helpful.

Read more on AfterCare Here

Read more on Fauxvernights (overnights without the sleepover) Here

I've been doing this a long time. When I first started the industry I stepped into was primarily a service for cismen with the queer sluttiness being between providers, fetish models, our framilies and polycules essentially. I'm so stoked to see that there's a little bit of a floor-scoot toward accepting sex work as an awesome outlet for shenanigans.

That being said I wanted to set aside space to make room for the smorgasbord of delights that is queer and neurodivergent sex and play and adventure here as a teaser before I start introducing sweet specialty sessions, duos and group scenes. My queerdo rate is about seventy five percent of my regular tribute or thereabouts:

• Little Cycling Trips with CityBikes

• Queer + Nerdy Field Trips

• Island Beach Days

• Park/ Waterfront Picnic

• Gay Movies in the Dungeon or outside

• Day Hikes up to 20k (Seaton, Bruce, Great Lakes Trails)

• Costume/ Clothes Shopping or making

• Art Galleries, Festivals, Music Events

• Queer Dad Duos/ Parental Outings

• More Queer Rope Play

I recognize too that when it comes to playing we might want to talk more than the average bear (wokka wokka) about the following:

• Pressure and compression

• Eye contact preferences

• Comfort levels around nudity

• Words and labels that are important to you

• Expanded definitions of sex, flirting, intimacy to confirm boundaries

• Specific needs/ boundaries around touch

• Alternative comms or feedback

• Non verbal safewords

• Extra emotional safety plans

• Personalized role play

• Needs for stim layering

• Personal space + comms in sessions

• Praise or humiliation

• pet play and care, headpats/ pets

• Mirrors, photos

• Aftercare and checkins

• Punishment and reward ideas

• Music and lighting

For other providers and kinksters who would like to learn from me, I can make that happen!

If you are an established SP, even better! It helps if you have an idea of what you'd like to learn from me specifically coming in versus "everything". Bear in mind that most of my skills relate to in-person sessions, safety and stunts.

My rate for mentoring is 200/hr

That being said I have been known to coach queer sex workers/ sex nerds from time to time because we happen to be I the right place at the same time but they must be established, already working providers.

I'm sure by digging around my site, or seeing me from any number of the facets of my shenanigans over the years you already have your eye on a thing or two you might want to learn from me. I also consider myself an ever-learning pervert but I do have a decent bit of experience related to:

• Negotiating and screening

• Stunts and safety

• Weirdness and sensory overloads

• Sensory dep and layering

• Coaching in another person's style

• Aftercare and pivoting

• Expanding definitions of sex

• Body language and non verbal comms

• Existing as a person who represents ideas of shame, excitement, danger

• Living as a face-out SW and the stigma that comes with

• The queer + transphobic family nav

You can also read a bit more about how I approach kink behind the stunts, sadism + other activities around my site.