I’m a Pro-Dominatrix in Toronto, Canada with a serious love for play, perversion and sensory exploration. I’m known for terrifying and ridiculous twists in play, craftiness and resourcefulness, sensation layering, creative + enthusiastic sadism, kinky rituals and stunts, wrestling and scissorholds, dexterous fisting wrists + foot-in-ass insertions among other things.

I create pockets of decadence, intensity and silliness, generally around serious edge play or physical arousal of some kind when folks can handle it. I thrive on watching consenting adults play, fall into the feelings of their bodies, experience favorite sensations new ways, ride individual or group edges, sweating and writhing below me. I also love being amused, delighted and spoiled, and when the stars align, quenching my sadistic thirsts with heavy play such as breathplay games, heavy corporal, fear-inducing medical scenes or broken skin which are lovely treats.

I believe that constantly experimenting with our bodies, sensations, and interesting immersive experiences in and outside of kink is vital for thriving amidst life's chaos. I also go out and do things I find challenging or immersive, diving into experiences where things are over my head, learning from skilled others and finding flow state away from screens. 

I am the type of person who fully supports 'trying all the things': keeping an open mind about what intimacy, arousal, touch and even sex can look like, I believe, is key to working with our bodies, curiosities and desires as they change over time to get the most out of 'opportunities we have left', making time for immersive sensory experiences outside of our homes and norms. I’m queer, pansexual/queer and a relationship anarchist who has had a multitude of different shapes of relationships and interactions (professionally and otherwise to learn from over the years): of course BDSM, general queerness, neurodivergent loved ones all give us opportunities to expand on our understanding of each other’s needs, and bring the gift of practice communicating those needs.

I love surprising folks in scenes with interesting combinations of things to assist in their falling into a headspace of thirst and exploration. I delight in then offering sensations to perverted creatures in those states from a bunch of things we already discussed in a regular headspace days before. From there I feel most comfortable being salacious, devouring, manipulating, push-pulling, harvesting, rag-dolling a willing sub/ experience slut to exhaustion and delicious emptiness (or fullness), to intensities, tears or one of the many ‘gasms a body can produce.

My sadistic side enjoys pain, breathplay + experience sluts who are committed to perversions, filth and experimentation. I have a lot of experiences to pull from to try, fall back on or lead with in any moment. Being able to dip in and out of intensity and play with/through the natural chemicals that arise in this type of chaotic or deeply immersive experience pocket have enabled me to create longer and longer "extended experiences" for folks who can check out for/dedicate 6+ hours or a few days and want a curated ploughman's board of filth, adventure and decadence in many forms.

I've been a Pro-Domina since 2005 and a Session Wrestler since '07 but also exist in other pockets of the sexy interwebs of the late 90s+ early aughts in bits with no connection to each other: from pin-up to foot fetish to panty selling, modelling, creative humiliation, wrestling + scissorfold fetish, WAM, ballbusting, clowning, vlogging, weird cosplay and BDSM/ butt stunts and had a blast with cr@igslist + b@ckpages in their day. 

I've had a number of websites that I've moved or shut down depending on changing laws/ weirdness around the industry so this is another new website 'post-fost@' with the pandemic still lingering. I've started a new blog here and am pulling up old writings to rework/censor/ record in alternate media like my podcast : so many of you remember me from old kinky blogs, message boards, niche fantasy ads and I hope to be able to pay tribute to one of the ways you excitedly found me in this process.

My preferred honorific is Contessa, but I also play with Goddess + Sir, and in play I’ll also use things like Doctor, Daddy, Auntie, Agent X etc depending on the role play.