Welcome perverts, weirdos, experience collectors and sensation sluts!

I’ve been a Pro Dominatrix for nearly 20 years, mostly based in Toronto but did have a touring era as a Session Wrestler. I identify as an experience slut myself, a queer, pansexual experience collector + sensation seeker who loves to craft and curate experiences for other folks who thirst for the same. Curiosity-stoking and variety in sensation-heavy flow states aka getting kinky and weird as often as possible + getting lost on purpose are things I work into life and play.

I love to curate and watch, to puppeteer a body through a variety of sensations: Femdom filth, service, power exchange, edge play, BDSM stunts, painful, messy or beautiful transformations, queer creature play, medfet, painful but rewarding procedures, botanical bondage/ mean things from nature, confused boners and weird toys, sensory overload or deprivation/ denial, silliness, fear, fantasy role play, headfucks, beautiful suffering and more. I bring immersive controlled chaos with a heap of kinky skills.

I’ve created a lot of imagery over the years for various websites, so you may have seen me elsewhere before, and you may find yourself here after seeing me doing something weird or scary somewhere. Please know my heavy scenes are with very experienced sluts + subs! Even then, there’s a lot of censorship around certain types of imagery, so know that what I’ve “snuck” into this 9th? version of a website for myself probably wont last: enjoy/avoid it while it’s here. There’s some garbage coming down the pipes this fall, and I’m pivoting from the last batch of CC-induced censorship (closing my SP, needing to remove funding from my podcast, wishlist pivots etc).

I’ve been doing filthy, weird things professionally for some time, and currently have a gorgeous little dungeon in west GTA where I do mean + interesting things to people on the regular.  I’m slow to fill out this website a bit more/ copy content over from my older websites, but I think there’s plenty here to get to know me.

~the Contessa

Aka. Aspasia

(Updated July 2024)