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Bondage
There are many ways one can be bound, either without much movement at all, with specific movement, full exposure or gradual exposure and objectification, securely on or partly off the ground.
I use a variety of materials for bondage depending on one's experience level, from beginner partial bondage to full coverage and sensory deprivation. Here are a few of the things I use:
Bondage furniture, cage, stocks, metal chains and cuffs, scarves, belts, hoods, blindfolds, headphones, gags, collar and leash, body bags, vac bed, bondage bench, f-sling, medical bhair, bagging, chaos bondage, face bondage, decorative, exposure + teasing, partial suspensions, predicament bondage, gravity boots …
Leather: straps, cuffs, straight jackets, harnesses
Rope: jute, wool, cotton, POSH
Pantyhose encasement, plaster, burlap, zipties, tape
Medical Bondage: catheters, speculums, plugs, pumps, clamps, hooks
CBB + genital bondage, chastity, Humbler, Pegs, pumps
Gender- affirming, damsel in distress, rag-dolling with bondage, marionette fantasy, helplessness, smushing
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Corporal + Beatdowns
I have experience outside of Femdom with percussion and wrestling, both for a number of years: love those crossover skills. I ramp up the intensity over time with corporal but do not shy away from making things scream if we make it there- it transports me into top space very quickly. I have a big collection of canes made of a variety of materials and a nice stack of leather gloves to keep my strong, mean hands in great shape haha. Also things like:
Floggers, tawse, paddles, bullwhips, snakewhip, dragontail, OTK, spanking, rug beaters, horsehair floggers, hairbrush, spoon, bastinado, cane breaking, crops, cattle prod, violet wand, florentine flogging, counts or rhythmic percussion, with mint mist or figging, slapping
Vampire gloves, kneeling/walking on rice/ jacks/lego, pressure sharps, claws, glass claw, sharp beach nuts, ball/ cunt/ crotch busting, chokes, obscure mean objects, weird games
Verbal humiliation or encouragement, embarrassing or impossible tasks, punishment/ reward systems, crying/ tear harvesting, tickling/ tickle torture, forced orgasm/ paingasm, ruined orgasms, ignore or headpats, initiation rites, villian vs superhero, bully vs nerd, odd themes, spitting/ golden, strap on sucking+
Wrestling+: Camel clutch, Figure 4s, sleepers, triangles, boston crab, foot slapping, belly punching, face-slapping, striking, hairpulling, asspunching, CBT, scissorholds, breathplay, HOM, smothering, foot domination, foot-gagging, kneeing, fist-gagging, ragdolling, crossbody pins, bow and arrow, hammerlocks, headlocks, victory posing, trash talk, smooshing/ weight smush, scent play, wrestling boots, singlet
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Medical Play
From sadistic to sexy experiments, medical bondage, fear play, medical weirdness, vintage nurse costume or scrubs or latex, there are lots of reasons to incorporate medfet, as it's own theme in my clinic or in bits with other themes like puppy play or anal dilation, things like:
Clamps, pumps, pegs, milker, cupping, moxabustion, TENS, PES, electro, electro feet, violet wand, sounding rods/ urethral dilation, saline inflation, catheters, urethral fingering, stapling, suturing, play piercing, sharps, medical chair, medical bed, straight jacket, cage, ignore, anal dilation, anal hook, nasal hook
Golden drop medicine, gags, tooth + tongue play, tweezing, shaving, glass + stainless toys, gags, speculums, long gloves, nasal tweezing delights, catheter piss fucking, enemas + obscure enemas, mean botanicals (pointy, burney), figging, edging, T & D, forced orgasm, ruined orgasm, eye flushing, sample collecting
Labcoat, retro nurse dress, black scrubs, latex apron/ latex nurse, examinations, clipboard + stethoscope, veterinarian-pet role play, sponge bathing, prodding, medical humiliation, powdering, sadistic doctor, humiliating nurse, mouth soaping, mean nun, silly nurse, bandaging/ plaster, out of control medfet duos with MVM
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Slut Training
I love supporting and setting up steps of someone's slutty journey. Experience collecting is an imortant part of my life and that's the same with many of my closest experience sluts. I love fisting and fingering asses and waking them up to new sensations- similarly folk's entire bodies, but there are some slutty activities that are just beautiful, sloppy and hot like:
Manipulating + stuffing holes: mouth, ass, urethral sounds, pussy, "sissypussies", fingering, fish hooking, milking, fisting, plugging, vibrators, electro, pumps, exams with extra stimulation, dilation, teasing, forced orgasms, oral cock sucking/ strap on worship, pegging, veggies/ cornholing, human turkey stuffing
Transformations: silicone breasts, tucking, fupa clips, fake moustaches + new eyebrows, tweezing, costumes, glitterbeards, animal/ pet play, binding, wigs, padding, crotch-stuffing, retro domestic servitude, house pet fantasies, cum dumpster fantasies, slutty spread bondage, peel off nail polish, bimboification, queer bimboification, saline inflation: balls, labia or breasts, dollification, medical fantasy "reassignments"
Domme duos/Femdom gangbangs, fisting, footing, monster cocks, xxl cocks, small cock overload, anal hook, pussy- cock- anal pumps, inflatable butt plugs, electro, CEI, milker kit, mirrors, cameras, spit-roasting, holding hands inside of you, double fisting, odd insertions, chastity, T & D, denial, ruined orgasms, too many orgasms
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More Sensations + Fetishes
There are a lot of other types of play and activities that I enjoy like:
WAM: spitting, neti shower, slime, sploshing, dunking, swirlies, pie cream, fruit crush, pies, cake sitting
Golden: gargling, showers, splashing, drip/ funnel/ tubes/ camelbak, golden strolls, mustard mistress, pink lemonade
Botanicals: thistles, nettles, florals and vines, pointy or pretty
Human Furniture, objectification, predicament bondage, trampling, face standing, time trials, smushing, weight rolling
Tastes: plants, foods, flavours, syrups, worn underthings, mouth soaping + other mouth meanness
Temperature Play: water, ice, heat, 'virgin' golden shower, fans, fire, wax, moxa
Scents: Essential oils, body scents, worn clothing, nostalgic smells, worn panties, socks, armpit + ass smother
Foot worship: foot bath + pampering, massage, licking food off, foot sucking, kissing, boot + heel worship
Sensory deprivation or overload: eye-contact, touch, bondage, hoods, gags +++
Sensory Decadence in session and aftercare (scent, taste, texture, sounds), soft touch overwhelm
More mean: clamps, scrapers, nail scratching, clawing, biting, tickling, weighted clamps, chillis/hotsauce with corporal
Audio: corporal to music, album listening/ inspo, classical, EDM, retro playlists
Looning, balloon popping or squealing, bagging, clown fetish, clown vs mime
Omorashi, smothering, diapering, farting, diva cup shots, foot crud, hair eating, neti or golden
SPH, CEI, JOI, humiliation, degradation, Queen/ Goddess worship
Pet play: puppy, kitty, horse, objectification, creature creation, dog /pony show, grooming
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Themes/ Costumes
Vintage or latex nurse, assassin/ secret agent, villan, witch/ sorceress, veterinarian, vampire, office attire, wrestling singlet, dark goddess, circus, clown, initiation rites/ rituals, medical exams, alien abduction, weird science. elegant servitude, daddy/ auntie, teacher/ student, personal trainer/ yoga instructor, pirate/ lost boys, tea time/ tea service
Pantyhose, fishnets, sock fetish, smelly socks, leather boots, thigh high boots or stockings, shiny boots, platform heels/ sandals, garters, wrestling boots, climbing shoes, goth boots, glove fetish (latex, leather, velvet, lace), latex, leather, nylon, spandex, lace, capes, fur, faux fur, catsuits, silly glasses, masks, velvet, satin, pjs
Kitties, puppy play, unicorn, pig, cow, sissification, paper bag pain slut, "spaghetti cat" vs nermal, mr.plow & marge, bully/ nerd, gym teacher/ student, grapefruit fucking, canadian themes, cannibal/ vore monster, fairy tales, onesies, lost festival participant/ festival mommy, human turkey or pig roast, kitchen puppy
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Hard Boundaries
This is not a full list, but there is some stuff I'm just not into, here are my Hard Boundaries:
Nude sessions, vanilla sex or 'jobs' from me of any kind, intimate body worship, "queening", oral servitude, pushing for 'oral worship', brown or roman showers
Sessions that trash women or discuss women who have not consented like partners/ homewrecker fantasies, 'pick me' stuff
Playing without safewords or limits, surprising third parties, public humiliation
Survival sex worker/ gay or trans experience violence fantasies and all related public humiliation fantasies that do not respect bystanders and incite violence in public for sexual gratification ie. 'sissy in a straight neighbourhood'
Surgical castration, bone breaking, tooth removal and other permanent damage that some people consider "mods"
Race Play, n*zi play, animal crush, k9, live animals of any kind, competitive fights, rapist fights
Extortion Fetish, logging into someone else's banking, government accounts or equivalent, punishments related to starvation or self-harm/ mutilation.