Midwinter Update
I spent a big chunk of January and the first bit of Feb in the forest while my studio had a few construction projects pass through. I’m back, have (mostly) unpacked and am breaking in some new toys and getting excited for QueerRope rope learning this next week in between kinky shenanigans. I’ve posted some full day and overnight availability for February here, knowing so many of you need a long captivity moment without control to boot yourself forward in winter or to replace the sunny vacation you may not be able to make time for this year. I’m also introducing something called Fauxvernights, for those who really can’t stay overnight but want as close an experience to that as possible. I’m also testing a new parlour space with kitchenette for extended sessions with more of a domestic vibe, extended rope/ human furniture, spanking: I’m still discovering my favourite ways to play in there.
I do still have a Throne Wishlist right now! For those who wanted to get me a little something special as a winter treat or for Valentine’s Day prezzies, my current wishlist/gift list is here! That w!shtender thing I mentioned in an earlier blog did end up happening this month and is affecting a large number of SWs and creators and is disappointing. It’s not surprising, but at the same time this may shut down my current wishlist in the next few months so for those who really love that style of gifting please dive in while I still have it ( I’m on a vintage clothing kick right now). Some of you know that in general this has been a crummy week for SWs in general so I have been taking a bit longer to catch up on some updates while dealing with necessary pivots. I’ll have to un-monetize my podcast next for the same reasons, so I may end up fully moving it somewhere else online.
Many of you met me through my B@ckpages/Cr@igslist ads selling odd experiences and parcels years ago and it’s been really nice to hear from folks who saw me 10, 15+ years ago reaching out to have a new experience with me with a hint of nostalgia after adding more experiences and playing elsewhere. Those of you who have played with me over the years know that I am an experience collector, love sharing humans with other tops and support “experience collecting” in kink through chatting, negotiating and playing with many partners if possible. Anyway, related to my panty selling days I’m doing an old school Panty Sale (snail mail or local pick up/ session doggie bag) here.
As for specialty sessions, I’m offering Medical + Religious Domination Duos with Mistress Violet Mays, we are both pretty stoked to play with new and returning patients together. Our collective skills + experience is quite extraordinary and we play very well together, creating peaks and valleys in long sessions and layering sensations with many limbs and tools. I will be offering a special rope experience after QueerRope this week, but am waiting before I introduce that in case I want to change the shape of it to suit what I want to experiment with. This event is new to me (the last 3 years), but prior to that I have traditionally offered a special rope experience to break in new gear or stunts so- I’ll update this post with a link to it when it’s ready - it will be it’s own blog post as well.
Lots more to say but I’ll save some for the podcast and some for my next post. The days are getting longer and we’ve seen some sun in the sky after too much grey. I did a barefoot river crossing on a hike this week because of this mildness- usually it’s frozen this time of year. I do recommend setting aside a chunk of time and the right layers (and hand warmers) to adventure for some winter quiet in the most ‘naturey’ are you can access. (I do not recommend playing with even ice-less winter water unless you have recovery gear and practice!) There’s something about seeing everything stripped bare that is oddly comforting in deep winter when we all feel a little slower and more tired than usual.
~ Aspasia
