Hard Boundaries
This is not a full list, and I'll add to it over time. I say this because:
- My interests and boundaries will/do change, like anyone
- Some things should go without saying
- There will always be trolls testing loopholes or wording in these lists
Hard Boundaries
- Race Play, N*zi Play, Animal Crush, K9, Surgical Castration, Bone Breaking, Tooth Removal
- Nude sessions, vanilla sex or 'jobs' from me of any kind, intimate body worship, "queening", oral servitude, asking for oral worship after I've already said no.
- Brown or Roman Showers
- Sessions that trash, compare or involve women who have not consented, like involving, contacting, or threatening a partner/ wife to heighten your own experience, homewrecker fantasies
- Extortion Fetish, Logging into someone else's banking, government accounts or equivalent
- Survival sex worker/ gay or trans experience violence fetish and related public humiliation fantasies including sissies in violently straight neighbourhoods
- Playing without negotiations, especially if someone "boasts" NO LIMITS. Likewise going into a session without any limits.
- "Hiring" any applicants to "sell" for sex of any kind.
- Tasks around starvation/ ED, sabotage or self-harm
- Competitive fight matches or grappling, fighting off r*pist script flipping
Should go without saying but these things are also not ok:
- Attempting to touch me without permission
- Opening cupboards/ doors/ drawers packages or fondling toys or cocks in my studio without permission
- I don't surprise third parties/ partners with sessions: consent from everyone is mandatory
- No CNC/ dubcon/ edge play sessions as our first meet without references.
- Leave when the session is done
- Sending multiple emails to get my attention doesn't get my attention any more, in fact it's a 3 steps back situation.
- Pushing for personal information or sharing information about me without other providers without consent (studio location or gear, personal info of any kind or info about people’s dogs even, secrets they told you)
- Sharing information with me about other providers likewise - don’t be that person who spreads more than we need to know: we all have our own professional boundaries between each other and when you respect that it’s a big step in earning our trust.
